The L'Établi Journal

I got it wrong: what to do now
When the order you received doesn't match what you had in mind: what to check first, what can come back and what can't, and how to write to us. Read more...
Can you give this as a gift? And to whom?
Who you don't give this kind of gift to, why it's something you ask about first, and the practical points when ordering: parcel, delivery times, and what can no longer... Read more...
Talking to someone about it: finding the words
Ready-to-say sentences, a good moment to say them, and what to do if the answer is no. We give words, no relationship advice, and we promise nothing. Read more...
Is it weird to buy this?
A short, calm text for anyone who hasn't bought anything yet and wonders whether they're allowed to be here. No figures and no speeches: a simple answer, and the right... Read more...
Can anyone guess what's in the parcel?
What others really see of an order: what's written on the box, who handles it before you, what appears on the bank statement, and which e-mails arrive. Read more...
BDSM for beginners: what doctors and judges say
Three letters, a lot of misconceptions. This guide is based on a medical study, a ruling by the European Court of Human Rights and a university survey — not on... Read more...
Vibrating eggs and mini vibrators: small but serious
The smallest vibrators in the catalogue are often the smartest: discreet, versatile, perfect for starting out or playing together. An overview of the family. Read more...
Masturbator: manual or automatic, how to choose
A €15 silicone sleeve and a €200 connected machine carry the same name. Here's the real difference, and how to choose according to your use. Read more...
Fantasy dildos: dragons, tentacles, and mythical creatures — the ultimate buying guide
Dragons, tentacles, abyssal creatures: why fantasy dildos are so popular, how to choose the right size and material, and our selection starting from €37.95. Read more...
Quiet and discreet: choosing well when you don't live alone
Flatshares, thin walls, children at home: noise and storage decide more purchases than people admit. What really counts, and what is just marketing. Read more...
Two independent motors: the detail that separates entry-level from the rest
Two areas stimulated, one single button: it's the silent compromise of most models. And it's often what makes them disappointing. Read more...
Rabbit and pulsed air: the external arm that no longer presses
The rabbit's long-standing flaw is the small arm that lands in the wrong place. Replace it with pulsed air and the problem largely disappears. Read more...
Thrusting, undulation, pulsation: the vibrators that don't just vibrate
A motor that vibrates makes things shake. A motor that moves really displaces something. It's not the same sensation, and it can't be seen in a photo. Read more...
2-in-1s: when a single device provides two stimulations
Pulsed air and vibration in the same casing, or internal and external arms: what a 2-in-1 really offers, and when it's no use. Read more...
Lay-on stimulator: the rest-on format, who it's for and why
Neither penetrating nor suction: you rest it on, you don't hold it. It's the simplest format to get used to, and the least well explained. Read more...
Rabbit vibrator: how to choose your dual stimulation
Everyone looks at the length of the shaft. What really decides is the spacing of the small arm — and the number of motors. Read more...
Sex toys for couples: 5 ways to make it a shared experience
An accessory doesn't replace anyone: it enhances. Five concrete ways to integrate it into your relationship, and the conversation to have beforehand. Read more...
Beginner's butt plug: where to start without making a mistake
Curiosity is legitimate, as is apprehension. The safety rules that are non-negotiable, and the method for a successful first time. Read more...
Ben Wa Balls: what they are for and how to get started
Often misunderstood, Kegel balls are seen as both pleasure accessories and toning tools. Here's what they really do, and how to get started the right way. Read more...
Silicone, glass, metal: what material should you choose for a sex toy?
The material changes everything: the feel, the maintenance, the lifespan, and even the safety. An honest comparison of the five materials you'll encounter. Read more...
How to clean and care for your sex toy (without damaging it)
A well-maintained sex toy lasts for years and remains safe. Here is the simple method, material by material, and the three most damaging mistakes to avoid. Read more...
Water-based or silicone-based lubricant: which one to choose?
The wrong lubricant can damage your silicone sex toy. Here's how to choose in thirty seconds. Read more...
How to choose your first sex toy: the no-taboo guide
You've never bought a sex toy and don't know where to start. This guide answers the real questions, without trying to sell you the most expensive one. Read more...
Pulsed Air or Vibration: What's the Difference and How to Choose?
Two technologies, two totally different sensations. We'll explain which one is right for you, without jargon and without beating around the bush. Read more...