Tips & Advice

At L'Établi, we talk about intimacy with elegance, naturalness and kindness — without judgement. Here is our advice for choosing, using and caring for your pleasures.

🎯 Choosing your first toy

  • To start: go for a clitoral stimulator (pulsed air), a small vibrator or a masturbator egg — gentle, intuitive and reassuring.
  • To explore as a couple: rings, stimulators and "For two" games add some spice without complication.
  • Listen to your desires: size, intensity, discretion… there is no wrong choice, only yours.

Read the full guide →

🧪 Materials & safety

  • Choose body-safe silicone, phthalate-free TPE/TPR and ABS — safe for the body.
  • Our product pages always state the material.
  • Not sure? Write to us, we will guide you without taboos.

💧 Lubricant: the right habit

  • Water-based: compatible with EVERYTHING (silicone toys, condoms) — the all-round choice.
  • Silicone-based: long-lasting, ideal under water, but to be avoided on silicone toys.
  • Always a little lubricant for more comfort and pleasure.

Water or silicone: the guide →

🧼 Hygiene & care

  • Clean before and after each use with lukewarm water + pH-neutral soap (or a sex toy cleaner).
  • Air-dry and store away from dust.
  • Rechargeable toys: do not immerse the charging port area (unless marked waterproof IPX7).

📦 Guaranteed discretion

  • 100% neutral parcel: no mention of the contents or of the shop on the packaging.
  • Secure payment and protected data.
  • Delivery: €8.90 in mainland France, Corsica included (free from €99).

💬 Any questions?

Our motto: “Advice without judgement”. Contact us, we are here to help you enjoy yourself with complete peace of mind.